Ease

Ease of choice. Ease in relationships. Ease in sex. Ease to say 'no'. Or to say 'yes'. Ease to stand up and leave. Ease to write. And most importantly, not to wait, not to endure, not to suffer, and not to betray yourself. This is achieved only if you know yourself, with the ability to listen and answer the questions: Do I want this? What do I want? How do I see this? And only by understanding this, the happening doesn't bring destruction and trauma but offers pleasure, enjoyment, zest for life. Goals arise from the answers to these questions, and as these goals are fulfilled, they bring happiness. Even 'going with the flow' - that's also a goal. Resting and seeing no one - a goal. Reading a book - a goal. Everything that happens is a response to some external stimulators.