What Turns Men On

5. Humor: Laughter and a shared sense of humor create emotional connection and intimacy. 6. Sexy Clothing: Stylish clothing or lingerie that highlights your preferences can be very arousing. 7. Initiative: Take the initiative by suggesting new date ideas or intimate moments. 8. Perfume: Scent plays an important role in arousal. Use a fragrance he likes. 9. Sexual Conversations: Gentle hints or open discussions about sex can strongly awaken.