Together as long as they both want it

People stay together as long as they both want to be together. Neither duty, nor honor, nor morality bind one person to another. When a person wants to leave, they will leave the home, the children, and the dying cripple. As long as they don't want to leave, they stay. When a person wants to be together, none of your flaws will hinder them. When a person wants to leave, none of your strengths will hold them. No matter how unattractive you are, someone will like you. No matter how good and desirable you are, there is someone who will reject you. If you are rejected, it means nothing. You don't become worse or less; nothing terrible really happens. Your person exists in the world, and they will accept you. If you are accepted, one day you will part - if not in life, then in death. Cherish what you have, don't regret what you lose, and don't fear losing it.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

Ways to Relieve Stress

1. Comb. During a workday spent in front of a monitor, facial muscles become so tense that the head feels heavy and starts to hurt. One way to avoid stress is to comb your hair for 10-15 minutes. This procedure helps to 'rev up' the blood and relax the muscles. 2. Eat ice cream. Delicious food is an effective antistress doping. Maintaining a good mood and relieving stress is helped by fatty fish, which contains omega-3 acids, very beneficial for the nervous system. If you don't like fish, eat ice cream, a banana, or chocolate. These products act no worse than antidepressants.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

Ways to Relieve Stress

3. Massage. To preserve energy, massage for 30 seconds the points located under the nose, between the eyebrows, under the lower lip, and in the center of the palm. 4. Rub the palms. Another simple way to release nervous tension and avoid stress. Rub your palms together with all your might until they become hot. It's also useful to thoroughly rub your ears. This way you can energize yourself and focus on your work.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

Ways to Relieve Stress

5. Wash away conflicts and stress. A 15-minute shower can help cope with emotional negativity. Stand under the warm streams of water so that they massage your head and shoulders. Soon you will feel how the water carries away all the unnecessary. 6. 27 Objects. Eastern practices teach: “If you want to get rid of sadness, move 27 objects in the house”. It is believed that this frees up space for energy to flow unhindered in the right direction. Try this method and see for yourself that it helps the brain switch, distract from problems, and relax.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

Ways to Relieve Stress

7. Stairs. Do a 30-second run up and down – this exercise increases oxygen flow to the parts of the brain responsible for managing emotional stress. 8. Colors. Psychologists have found that coloring pictures for two to three minutes during periods of heightened stress increases the likelihood of completing work on time by five times. So not only can you overcome stress, but you might also create a masterpiece.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

Ways to Relieve Stress

9. Hibiscus Tea. When radicals accumulate, a person experiences feelings of anxiety and panic states, characteristic of stress. Hibiscus prevents radicals from concentrating, thinning them out, and thus helps relieve stress without making you sluggish. 10. Arm Movements. For many people, stress manifests as tension, losing the flexibility of the muscles of the shoulder girdle, neck, and lumbosacral spine – hence the headaches and back pain. Massage or swimming can be a great help in this case. At home and work, simple relaxation exercises can be performed: rotate the arms, bend them in different directions, and also perform leg swings.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

Ways to Relieve Stress

11. Cleaning. Organizing objects helps to order the mind and focus. Moreover, the neat appearance of shelves, drawers, and cabinets gives a unique psychological effect – people unconsciously transfer external order and organization to their own lives. 12. A Minute for Reflection. Find an opportunity to stay home alone to sort out your thoughts. Play your favorite music, get your favorite treat from the fridge, and settle into your favorite chair. Think about what you want most and write your desire on paper. The sight of a clear plan will help you determine further actions.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

Ways to Relieve Stress

13. Aromatherapy. Scents are strongly linked to emotional memory. Therefore, it is very useful to have a scent at hand that is associated with moments of intense happiness, delight, and bliss. Inhale it often, this will help maintain a good mood. 14. Dancing. Be sure to dance at home! Rhythmic movements to music are a great way to relieve stress. In addition, dancing is perceived as entertainment, unlike the same workouts at the gym.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

What is Fear and How to Overcome It?

It is the scariest thing in everyone's life that holds them back. Fear prevents action. It is a state that overwhelms, reduces space, and leaves you unsure of what to do. The first thing that comes in a state of shock is our body. It reacts violently and in various ways. Possible reactions include: changes in the frequency and strength of heart contractions, sweating, gastrointestinal disturbances (nausea, vomiting, flatulence, diarrhea), breathing disruptions/changes, and much more. Everything depends on the quality of the fear and the individual person.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

What is fear and how to overcome it?

What thoughts arise that develop but do not diminish this fear? People first consider the worst that could happen; they are in an inadequate, emotional, tense state, and begin to delve even deeper into the fear. In such a moment, it is extremely difficult to see the right solution, let alone calm down.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

What is fear and how to get rid of it?

And it is important to distinguish fear, like when you see a wolf coming towards you, from fear when a loved one leaves after 20 years of living together. When he/she says these words, the world turns upside down in the same second and it is very difficult to cope with yourself, to calm down. The most serious sedatives come into play. A person finds themselves on the verge of life and death... it's as if they are being torn apart. And you seem to understand that you need to do something, but the body seems paralyzed and subject to the will of something invisible. And the hardest thing is dealing with your thoughts(!) because they lay the foundation for all the ensuing events.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

What is fear and how to overcome it?

The most important thing to understand is that there are no hopeless situations, and in the life of every person, there is only that which they can cope with! Fear exists only to be overcome, to be dealt with. It is necessary to give oneself the command to switch attention, to start moving oneself out of this state through other actions, and not to immerse oneself in it, as they say, "with one's head." This is immersion in the emotional part, where there is no solution. And this is the most difficult thing that a person has to deal with. Then, sit down and write down the options for the further development of events.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

What is Fear and How to Get Rid of It?

It's crucial to know what to do and how to act in such situations, and most importantly, to learn to act according to a set plan. Otherwise, you and your body will strive to avoid fear and everything associated with it, and this will remain an unknown area for you, of which there are many in a person's life. But this multitude is formed precisely due to the person's own decisions. The right decision is always to face your fear and overcome it! Otherwise, it will consume you. Fear destroys the body. It stops us, does not move us upwards, and does not lead to development.

[Psychology]

October 28, 2024

Rolls-Royce Unveils Exclusive Phantom Goldfinger

Rolls-Royce has unveiled the exclusive Phantom Goldfinger, featuring a real gold bar hidden in the interior. The car is styled after the 1937 Rolls-Royce Phantom III from the James Bond film 'Goldfinger'. Gold trim adorns the front and rear consoles, as well as the glove box. There is a gold-plated golf club in the trunk. The price is undisclosed, but a bar of 18-karat gold costs approximately $500,000.

[Interesting]

October 28, 2024

Future Space Robots Are Already Here

These self-organizing GITAI robots could potentially build future infrastructure on Mars and beyond. Speed is not so important in space. But getting the job done is of utmost importance.

[Interesting]

October 28, 2024

David Bowie Center to Open in London

A David Bowie Center will open in London. The Victoria and Albert Museum in London has announced the opening of the David Bowie Center next year. Its exhibition will include more than 90,000 items related to the musician. Notably, the exhibition will feature the singer’s most iconic outfits from all the years of his career and handwritten song lyrics. The venue will host exhibitions, installations, as well as educational areas.

[Interesting]

October 28, 2024

Ethiopia could save coffee from climate change

Nearly all of the world's coffee harvest comes from just two varieties - Arabica and Robusta. Both of these plants are considered vulnerable to warming and reductions in rainfall. Scientists have created a model and concluded that in the future, Arabica can be grown in Ethiopia, whereas in other regions, climate change will make this more difficult or impossible. Currently, up to 31% of Ethiopia's territory is suitable for Arabica production. By 2080, the area of suitable land will double or more, but it will shift to the north and northwest of the country.

[Interesting]

October 28, 2024

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex

Anal sex holds a leading position in the list of sexual goals that men feel compelled to try. However, their plans do not always align with women's desires. So why are men so captivated by the idea of knocking on women’s back doors? Sex experts have had to delve deeply into men's opinions, and here are the arguments they ultimately present.

[Intimology]

October 28, 2024

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex

#1. Forbidden Fruit. Throughout history, anal sex has always been shrouded in the allure of forbidden fruit. Overcoming this taboo ignites the imagination and puts men on high alert. Women's resistance further fuels the interest, resulting in a devilish mix of desires steeped in intrigue, prohibition, excitement, and a cat-and-mouse game in the pursuit of the desired sexual prey.

[Intimology]

October 28, 2024

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex

#2. The Influence of Pornography. Too many men today associate porn with real sex and take everything that happens there as a guide to action. They create a particular standard of sexual life and want to match their own experiences with the ideas obtained during viewing in an aroused state. This directly applies to anal sex as well. Nowadays, this type is present in every porn (or almost every one). It has become a standard. Most guys have seen how it happens even if they weren't specifically looking for it. In porn, it is presented to them on a platter and gives them an idea, which is carried over into reality.

[Intimology]

October 28, 2024